It is a rare occasion indeed that something makes me want to put down my camera and watch events unfold instead of photographing them, but last night Kamila and her Father Lukasz dancing together at her wedding touched me so deeply that I did just that. After surprising his daughter with a Father of the bride speech in English (Kamila and her family are Polish) which brought a tear to more than the bride’s eye, Lukasz swept his daughter off her feet shortly after her first dance with her new husband Russell, and waltzed her round the dance floor with a grace and elegance I was truly honoured to witness.
As a bride-cum-wedding planner, Kamila held the rare but invaluable traits of attention to detail but with a laid back attitude to the day overall, this winning combination created a wonderfully warm atmosphere throughout both the ceremony and reception party. Always a fan of the more intimate wedding I was delighted to be part of this largely family affair (in both the literal and figurative sense) which saw around thirty guests from ceremony to reception sharing in Kamila and Russell’s big day.
From her navy toenails (perfectly matching her new husbands suit!) to the bouquets and button holes Kamila and Russell’s wedding was both elegant and stylish. A four-piece gospel choir provided the soundtrack and made a wonderful change from more common pre-recorded music. After the ceremony at St Matthew’s Church guests made their way to the charming Bull Hotel in Gerrard’s Cross where drinks were served before I took the opportunity to steal away the bride and groom for some portraits. Kamila’s natural beauty and ease in front of the camera perfectly complimented Russell’s laid back attitude to posed photography (often a tricky balance with wedding portraits) and their openness to my ideas made the shoot wonderfully enjoyable. Approximately halfway through the shoot we had an extra special visitor in the form of a robin – a bird with deep personal significance to Russell and his family – who happily perched and watched as he and his new wife laughed and smile so obviously and openly in love.
The wedding breakfast was served early evening and a truly beautiful white truffle cake (crafted by Russell’s own sister) stood in pride of place at the head of the room. Speeches delivered by Russell (groom), Scott (best man) and Lukasz (Father of the bride) were all met with laughter, applause and a genuine sense of love between the two merging families. Entertainment temporarily provided by Hudson and Jude, Rusell’s young nephews, who tore around the room as only young brothers can do to the delight of guests and relations alike, it was soon time for the first dance. Slow dancing to Stevie Wonder as everyone looked on Kamila and Russell only had eyes for each other.
On a personal note, this was my first shoot after having my first baby five months ago and I would like to thank Russell, Kamila and all their friends and family for welcoming me into their lives for this one special day. I often feel like part of the family myself by the end of my photoshoots having shared such a personal day and met so many of the bride and grooms relations and this was no different. A huge, heartfelt thank you to Kamila and Russell for inviting me to share this wonderful day with them, I only hope they love the photographs as much as I do.
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